We rely on our physical and mental capabilities to get us noticed. Even the most quiet and introverted amongst us has to lay himself open in order to let someone else in. We all have qualities that make us interesting to others, but we must display them clearly if we want to share them with the world.
Some of us know what we want, and we go out and get it! Those of us fortunate enough to express this throughout our daily lives are very visible indeed, but we all have the potential and the necessity to stay our fear of rejection or failure in order to succeed in our interactions.
Making that connection with someone is fraught with social danger. We sometimes remain aloof and non committal to avoid a liaison that scares us. We attempt to display our positive qualities in a guarded but obvious manner, hoping to force the hand of the person we are interested in.
Self-assured mental calmness opens up a world of possibilities in our relationships with others. To know ourselves and to be comfortable in our own skins really puts us in control and suggests to others that they will be safe in our hands.
Making that connection with someone is fraught with social danger. We sometimes remain aloof and non committal to avoid a liaison that scares us. We attempt to display our positive qualities in a guarded but obvious manner, hoping to force the hand of the person we are interested in.